Comments on: Overcoming Emotional Attachment http://www.scottfreethinking.com/2006/12/overcoming-emotional-attachment-2/ Thu, 02 Feb 2012 21:38:52 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: Scott Free Thinking » Idle Vibe – The Thing We Feel is Missing http://www.scottfreethinking.com/2006/12/overcoming-emotional-attachment-2/comment-page-1/#comment-4451 Scott Free Thinking » Idle Vibe – The Thing We Feel is Missing Sun, 22 Jan 2012 20:36:20 +0000 http://www.scottfreethinking.com/blog/index.php/overcoming-emotional-attachment/#comment-4451 [...] everyone deserves happiness. At times, this means eliminating our excess baggage by simply letting it go. Ancient culture used to deal with this through various ways. Modern behavioral science and [...] [...] everyone deserves happiness. At times, this means eliminating our excess baggage by simply letting it go. Ancient culture used to deal with this through various ways. Modern behavioral science and [...]

]]> By: karen http://www.scottfreethinking.com/2006/12/overcoming-emotional-attachment-2/comment-page-1/#comment-4293 karen Tue, 10 Jan 2012 00:05:28 +0000 http://www.scottfreethinking.com/blog/index.php/overcoming-emotional-attachment/#comment-4293 Well perhaps this means that you really liked that show and the characters in it felt like your family. Seems to me that when something I really like needs to go to another place other, I need to reach out and talk with someone and physically open up another door to another good feeling...otherwise I will be so sad for so long. But I do, Chastity, keep the good feelings that I had with the situation or person or thing, in my heart, never to depart. Some say on the other side we only see and feel pure love. ...and we only remember the good things about life...if that is even a little bit true, then it may be good motivation to remember the good, and keep going for new good memories too...living in the present in a pleasant way. What do you think? Well perhaps this means that you really liked that show and the characters in it felt like your family.

Seems to me that when something I really like needs to go to another place other, I need to reach out and talk with someone and physically open up another door to another good feeling…otherwise I will be so sad for so long.

But I do, Chastity, keep the good feelings that I had with the situation or person or thing, in my heart, never to depart. Some say on the other side we only see and feel pure love. …and we only remember the good things about life…if that is even a little bit true, then it may be good motivation to remember the good, and keep going for new good memories too…living in the present in a pleasant way.
What do you think?

]]> By: Scott Free Thinking » Stress Strategies for Survivors http://www.scottfreethinking.com/2006/12/overcoming-emotional-attachment-2/comment-page-1/#comment-4195 Scott Free Thinking » Stress Strategies for Survivors Thu, 29 Dec 2011 20:47:32 +0000 http://www.scottfreethinking.com/blog/index.php/overcoming-emotional-attachment/#comment-4195 [...] technique in an old entry years ago which still receives a lot of web traffic to this day called Overcoming Emotional Attachment. To build upon managing our emotions with intelligence, we also have to examine our psychological [...] [...] technique in an old entry years ago which still receives a lot of web traffic to this day called Overcoming Emotional Attachment. To build upon managing our emotions with intelligence, we also have to examine our psychological [...]

]]> By: Scott Free Thinking » Scott Lee’s Top 10 Gift Ideas for This Holiday Season, For the Long Term Survivors! http://www.scottfreethinking.com/2006/12/overcoming-emotional-attachment-2/comment-page-1/#comment-2308 Scott Free Thinking » Scott Lee’s Top 10 Gift Ideas for This Holiday Season, For the Long Term Survivors! Thu, 17 Nov 2011 04:51:53 +0000 http://www.scottfreethinking.com/blog/index.php/overcoming-emotional-attachment/#comment-2308 [...] For someone to learn how to learn, this would mean anything that allows them to more easily acquire new information. It may sound cheesy but teaching people how to accurately interpret statistics and scientific data, helping them learn PhotoReading or some other study method, or giving someone tools they need to get over a recent loss or other emotional dread. [...] [...] For someone to learn how to learn, this would mean anything that allows them to more easily acquire new information. It may sound cheesy but teaching people how to accurately interpret statistics and scientific data, helping them learn PhotoReading or some other study method, or giving someone tools they need to get over a recent loss or other emotional dread. [...]

]]> By: Chastity http://www.scottfreethinking.com/2006/12/overcoming-emotional-attachment-2/comment-page-1/#comment-1274 Chastity Sat, 30 Apr 2011 22:24:47 +0000 http://www.scottfreethinking.com/blog/index.php/overcoming-emotional-attachment/#comment-1274 I need help i think. Im 13 and my mom hates it when i dont sell old things ill never need. But it seems like behind each item is a memory, and i just cant give that up. Like my old couch it was broke and we were moving i wanted to keep it there was so much memories behind. Then my mom threw it away i cried 3 days straight. And i was watching glee the other day and it was season one were the club was going to end because they didnt win regonals. But anyways its wierd i felt there emotions and when they cried i cried because it was eneding but there 3 seasons i knew it wasnt over but i still cried. Im this in all kinds of tv series ill get attached to them and i feel there emotions and when the show ends for i cry for like the whole week until i get something else on my mind. But if i start thinking about it again i cry again. What exactly does these mean? I need help i think. Im 13 and my mom hates it when i dont sell old things ill never need. But it seems like behind each item is a memory, and i just cant give that up. Like my old couch it was broke and we were moving i wanted to keep it there was so much memories behind. Then my mom threw it away i cried 3 days straight. And i was watching glee the other day and it was season one were the club was going to end because they didnt win regonals. But anyways its wierd i felt there emotions and when they cried i cried because it was eneding but there 3 seasons i knew it wasnt over but i still cried. Im this in all kinds of tv series ill get attached to them and i feel there emotions and when the show ends for i cry for like the whole week until i get something else on my mind. But if i start thinking about it again i cry again. What exactly does these mean?

]]> By: rajesh http://www.scottfreethinking.com/2006/12/overcoming-emotional-attachment-2/comment-page-1/#comment-1220 rajesh Fri, 28 Jan 2011 08:23:39 +0000 http://www.scottfreethinking.com/blog/index.php/overcoming-emotional-attachment/#comment-1220 there is no hope plz die every body,just sucide kill your self all dont live any more why to live in this dirty world there is no hope
plz die every body,just sucide
kill your self all
dont live any more
why to live in this dirty world

]]> By: Xavier http://www.scottfreethinking.com/2006/12/overcoming-emotional-attachment-2/comment-page-1/#comment-1077 Xavier Fri, 20 Aug 2010 21:34:29 +0000 http://www.scottfreethinking.com/blog/index.php/overcoming-emotional-attachment/#comment-1077 Hi Scott when someone emotionally attached to somebody it pains a lot to practise this. But such a lot of truth is there in what you say Scott. Hi Scott when someone emotionally attached to somebody it pains a lot to practise this. But such a lot of truth is there in what you say Scott.

]]> By: Brittany http://www.scottfreethinking.com/2006/12/overcoming-emotional-attachment-2/comment-page-1/#comment-335 Brittany Sun, 28 Mar 2010 07:57:25 +0000 http://www.scottfreethinking.com/blog/index.php/overcoming-emotional-attachment/#comment-335 This was really nice to read. I've been looking everywhere for a simple answer to not getting attached. I don't think I'm going to find one, but this was close. Hopefully it helps. This was really nice to read. I’ve been looking everywhere for a simple answer to not getting attached. I don’t think I’m going to find one, but this was close. Hopefully it helps.

]]> By: gayatree http://www.scottfreethinking.com/2006/12/overcoming-emotional-attachment-2/comment-page-1/#comment-64 gayatree Tue, 20 Nov 2007 07:06:28 +0000 http://www.scottfreethinking.com/blog/index.php/overcoming-emotional-attachment/#comment-64 how can u lose sum1 who love nad want to be with everytime i had 6 broken relationships and no wthe 7th is turning its way ...... it makes me crazyyyy i feel like a loser evevn after putting in so many efforts to maintain a good relationship how can u lose sum1 who love nad want to be with everytime i had 6 broken relationships and no wthe 7th is turning its way …… it makes me crazyyyy i feel like a loser evevn after putting in so many efforts to maintain a good relationship

]]> By: sou http://www.scottfreethinking.com/2006/12/overcoming-emotional-attachment-2/comment-page-1/#comment-63 sou Fri, 21 Sep 2007 08:31:01 +0000 http://www.scottfreethinking.com/blog/index.php/overcoming-emotional-attachment/#comment-63 hey thanks for writing this! something i definitely needed to read... i agree (having tried this on myself quite recently) it really is about gathering ur thoughts enough to change one small perspective i guess the process is - awareness that ur low> awareness of the amount of time you've spent feeling the same emotion> figuring out what you feel about the feeling> willingness to change> working on it hey thanks for writing this! something i definitely needed to read…

i agree (having tried this on myself quite recently) it really is about gathering ur thoughts enough to change one small perspective

i guess the process is -

awareness that ur low> awareness of the amount of time you’ve spent feeling the same emotion> figuring out what you feel about the feeling> willingness to change> working on it

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