Principles of Seduction – Part 3

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Dealing With Rejection and Moving On << It's Rule Number One

First of all, let me point out that when it comes to attraction, a human being cannot be forced to be attracted to you. Having said this, a lot of these seduction learning courses will promise you results that, under the terms of most people’s interpretations, could be very unrealistic. Some people are familiar with hypnosis, but let me clarify a few things about creating hypnotic states. In psychology, hypnosis is said to be an altered state of consciousness in which the subject is permitting a more open attitude of suggestibility. In NLP, you can use the induction of hypnotic states to lure women into a more ideal place for seducing them, but just as with general hypnosis, are all people able to be hypnotized? No. Not all people are. In fact, it is said that only maybe 9%-11% of the population has a very high suggestibility level to hypnotic states, where another large percentage of over 30% has a “moderate” level of suggestibility, and the rest you’ll have a lot more difficulty with.

NLP, or neuro linguistic programming, relies on a few things. Number one, it is assuming that certain people will often conjure up particular associations in their mental state in conjunction with the language they’re hearing. But just like hypnosis, is everyone suggestible to NLP? No. Not all of them are! The big point I am making here is that if you are ever trying to connect with one individual person and they are not giving you anything but rejection for an extended period of time, or sometimes you may even choose rejection at all, move on to the next! For those who are seeking to end up with someone they’re compatible with, do not persist or push anything!

So, rule #1 in seduction is that when you are encountering rejection, you must move past it. The biggest mistake any guy can make in the midst of seducing a girl and she’s not responsive is to try and keep pressing on with the reason, But I really like this girl…Yes, I know you do, but she’s simply not into you, and probably has no heart – just move on. It is the only thing you can do, and sometimes it can even be the most effective thing. If a girl either ignores you or gives you a weird look whenever you go up to talk to her, and then you walk away immediately after she gives that response, some girls will get a feeling of regret and move to apologize and give you another chance to talk to them.

Overall, it can be said that the most effective philosophy in dealing with rejection is to simply move on. You could also say that this not only implies so with getting relationships started, but also when relationships end because of certain kinds of differences.

Don’t Talk to Strangers

In today’s society, the media is covered with a plethora of negative stories regarding rape, and sexual assault. As a matter of fact, in the United States you can look up a list of sex offenders in your area and you will likely encounter at least one every three neighborhood blocks or so. Having said that, however, there is something else you should keep in mind, and it’s something I know from my own personal experience. It is easier seducing women than being a salesman. So, if you could imagine yourself as a salesman who had to make a sale once a day or something in order to eat and live – you can also imagine yourself as a master seduction artist who certainly could end up with a girl at the end of the week if he wanted to.

We live in a socially isolated world. In major of cities of more than four million people in its population, the interconnectedness of that population is slim in comparison to what it could be if people had a bit more courage and were also a little more open and accepting of others. But it is actually easier to sell yourself to women than it would be to sell them the things they love shopping for – clothes, jewelry, etc. You may or may not believe me on this fact, but let me stress that if you follow the principles of seduction correctly, you will get more girls coming at you than you originally ever thought possible. Now, for guys, and girls wanting to seduce them – it could be said even easier. Guys don’t shop for anything commercial, they shop for women, so you’re already getting an advantage in more than one area!

The reason it is easier to sell yourself rather than sell a product is in two parts. First of all, you know more about yourself and your relations with other people than you could ever know about an actual, physical product. And second, you’re not selling something that is outside of someone, you’re selling you, which could be a part of their life and a part of them forever, and it is more real than anything you could ever physically sell to them. If you’ve ever worked as a cashier, or anyone in the retail industry, do you notice how many customers walk through the doorways on Saturdays? When you think about the amount of money that is tied up in all of the world’s business, also imagine how much substance and heart is tied up in the world’s infinite circle of romantic relationships. To some, love is literally worth dying for, love is worth fighting for. So just remember that you have the advantage.

Romance and Attraction is an Emotional Process

Feel free to put a plaque up on your wall that says: romance and attraction is an emotional process. Because it truly is. And this is important. Because if you understand this, you also understand that the central focus to beginning any relationship is fueling it with raw emotional power. What you will find happening during the process of guiding someone into an emotional state is that you will join them! You will be feeling all of the same effects!

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