Comments on: The 6 Month Relationship Mark http://www.scottfreethinking.com/2007/10/the-6-month-relationship-mark-2/ Tue, 07 Sep 2010 14:27:05 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 By: Derek http://www.scottfreethinking.com/2007/10/the-6-month-relationship-mark-2/comment-page-1/#comment-1129 Derek Thu, 02 Sep 2010 02:42:49 +0000 http://www.scottfreethinking.com/index.php/the-6-month-relationship-mark/#comment-1129 Me & My girlfriend (16 years and 15) have been together for about 5 months now, we're still going strong & Have a pretty good communication together, though it might sound strange, we've been talking about the future and life after highschool, since she still has a year left at highschool when I leave, obviously it's going to be a stressful time but we'll just have to see what happens when we approach that time, for now, enjoying the rest of my last year of highschool! Me & My girlfriend (16 years and 15) have been together for about 5 months now, we’re still going strong & Have a pretty good communication together, though it might sound strange, we’ve been talking about the future and life after highschool, since she still has a year left at highschool when I leave, obviously it’s going to be a stressful time but we’ll just have to see what happens when we approach that time, for now, enjoying the rest of my last year of highschool!

]]> By: kiera http://www.scottfreethinking.com/2007/10/the-6-month-relationship-mark-2/comment-page-1/#comment-1085 kiera Sun, 22 Aug 2010 05:29:25 +0000 http://www.scottfreethinking.com/index.php/the-6-month-relationship-mark/#comment-1085 my boyfriend and i reached the 6 month mark and we are in love, i know it..but i think i let my thoughts wander to much...i dint even know but i've thought a bunch of times "hmm, should i even be with him?" we have such great communication! i think that has to do with the fact that we've been in this relationship and the whole time, we've been over 1,000 miles apart, but im afraid to tell him this and im not going to, i said i would never leave him and i cant just say ive been thinking if we should even be together..we've met twice and when im with him the whole world stops but when we are on the phone and he has to go and we havent talked barely all day i miss him so much that i dont even want to talk to him on facebook after and that makes me wonder if i really love him...i mean if i love him i want to talk to him especially if i miss him...right? that isnt the only senario of when i dont want to talk to him........p.s. is it bad that we've never faught? he's cheated on me once, i've cheated on him once but never one sinlge fight =\ please help...im so confused my boyfriend and i reached the 6 month mark and we are in love, i know it..but i think i let my thoughts wander to much…i dint even know but i’ve thought a bunch of times “hmm, should i even be with him?” we have such great communication! i think that has to do with the fact that we’ve been in this relationship and the whole time, we’ve been over 1,000 miles apart, but im afraid to tell him this and im not going to, i said i would never leave him and i cant just say ive been thinking if we should even be together..we’ve met twice and when im with him the whole world stops but when we are on the phone and he has to go and we havent talked barely all day i miss him so much that i dont even want to talk to him on facebook after and that makes me wonder if i really love him…i mean if i love him i want to talk to him especially if i miss him…right? that isnt the only senario of when i dont want to talk to him……..p.s. is it bad that we’ve never faught? he’s cheated on me once, i’ve cheated on him once but never one sinlge fight =\
please help…im so confused

]]> By: Scott Lee http://www.scottfreethinking.com/2007/10/the-6-month-relationship-mark-2/comment-page-1/#comment-1059 Scott Lee Fri, 13 Aug 2010 19:21:14 +0000 http://www.scottfreethinking.com/index.php/the-6-month-relationship-mark/#comment-1059 Brittanie, I can only assume you are around his age? If so, I would want you to consider that chances are high you have a long, long life ahead of you and things can happen! Still, I would say one of the things you should do is to enjoy this while it lasts. As long as he is not "leeching" off you and you are able to enjoy each other's company without him depending on you for all of his wants and needs, then why not enjoy it? -Scott Brittanie,

I can only assume you are around his age? If so, I would want you to consider that chances are high you have a long, long life ahead of you and things can happen!

Still, I would say one of the things you should do is to enjoy this while it lasts. As long as he is not “leeching” off you and you are able to enjoy each other’s company without him depending on you for all of his wants and needs, then why not enjoy it?

-Scott

]]> By: Brittanie http://www.scottfreethinking.com/2007/10/the-6-month-relationship-mark-2/comment-page-1/#comment-1058 Brittanie Fri, 13 Aug 2010 18:59:23 +0000 http://www.scottfreethinking.com/index.php/the-6-month-relationship-mark/#comment-1058 My boyfriend and I are about to reach the sixth month mark, too! We're going to bushkill falls with his family, but we'll probably leave them and go swimming in the water falls. Sometimes, I feel like he's using me because he doesn't have a lot going on in his life. His mom passed when he was 11 (now 15) and I feel like i'm filling some kind of void he needs. He calls me his "one and only" and it scares the crap out of me. We definitely are in love, but my thoughts scare me and I have no idea how to stop worrying so much and just stay in love... we have so much fun together and when i'm in his arms their is nowhere else i'd want to be. My boyfriend and I are about to reach the sixth month mark, too! We’re going to bushkill falls with his family, but we’ll probably leave them and go swimming in the water falls. Sometimes, I feel like he’s using me because he doesn’t have a lot going on in his life. His mom passed when he was 11 (now 15) and I feel like i’m filling some kind of void he needs. He calls me his “one and only” and it scares the crap out of me. We definitely are in love, but my thoughts scare me and I have no idea how to stop worrying so much and just stay in love… we have so much fun together and when i’m in his arms their is nowhere else i’d want to be.

]]> By: Jenn http://www.scottfreethinking.com/2007/10/the-6-month-relationship-mark-2/comment-page-1/#comment-1043 Jenn Tue, 13 Jul 2010 01:42:29 +0000 http://www.scottfreethinking.com/index.php/the-6-month-relationship-mark/#comment-1043 Hhmmm... good read, thanks! My bf and I (52 and 45, respectively) have reached the six month mark. He has recognized every 'anniversary' since number two (month). It's sweet and nice but I'm beginning to get a whiff of something else and, sadly, I think it's desperation (on his part). In the past two months I've witnessed some really immature behavior on his part, especially when I'm not available. As he has said, I'm "the only good thing" in his life and six months of being someone's everything is taking its toll. It's suffocating, frankly. And now, he wants to store belongings at my home that are currently stored at his friend's home - and I have said (in words and in writing) that I cannot accommodate his things here. He hung on on me during that conversation; later, when we saw each other over the weekend, he made it all about his feelings of not having anyplace to store his stuff. Financially, he does as little as possible to stay under the wire: no credit cards, works for cash. My intuition tells me there's likely something troublesome about his taxes or the like. We get along and share many of the same tastes, but I have tired of wondering what he's hiding, and of, honestly, feeling I'm about to be used. So, six months has some significance in this relationship! Next time, I'll be mindful of this, too :D Hhmmm… good read, thanks!

My bf and I (52 and 45, respectively) have reached the six month mark. He has recognized every ‘anniversary’ since number two (month). It’s sweet and nice but I’m beginning to get a whiff of something else and, sadly, I think it’s desperation (on his part).

In the past two months I’ve witnessed some really immature behavior on his part, especially when I’m not available. As he has said, I’m “the only good thing” in his life and six months of being someone’s everything is taking its toll.

It’s suffocating, frankly. And now, he wants to store belongings at my home that are currently stored at his friend’s home – and I have said (in words and in writing) that I cannot accommodate his things here. He hung on on me during that conversation; later, when we saw each other over the weekend, he made it all about his feelings of not having anyplace to store his stuff.

Financially, he does as little as possible to stay under the wire: no credit cards, works for cash. My intuition tells me there’s likely something troublesome about his taxes or the like.

We get along and share many of the same tastes, but I have tired of wondering what he’s hiding, and of, honestly, feeling I’m about to be used.

So, six months has some significance in this relationship! Next time, I’ll be mindful of this, too :D

]]> By: amy http://www.scottfreethinking.com/2007/10/the-6-month-relationship-mark-2/comment-page-1/#comment-1039 amy Mon, 21 Jun 2010 02:41:35 +0000 http://www.scottfreethinking.com/index.php/the-6-month-relationship-mark/#comment-1039 <a href="#comment-294" rel="nofollow">@danielle</a> I wish u the very best of luck! may God bless u and ur bf. =) @danielle
I wish u the very best of luck! may God bless u and ur bf. =)

]]> By: amy http://www.scottfreethinking.com/2007/10/the-6-month-relationship-mark-2/comment-page-1/#comment-1038 amy Mon, 21 Jun 2010 02:40:45 +0000 http://www.scottfreethinking.com/index.php/the-6-month-relationship-mark/#comment-1038 yeah, i just turned 6 months with my bf on thurs and it was supposed to be that we were to celebrate (just a fancy dinner is all) yesterday and instead we got ina big argument and today it escalated and i say how can he love me if he didn't even care-he said "one year maybe, but 6 months *shakes his head".... =/ yeah, i just turned 6 months with my bf on thurs and it was supposed to be that we were to celebrate (just a fancy dinner is all) yesterday and instead we got ina big argument and today it escalated and i say how can he love me if he didn’t even care-he said “one year maybe, but 6 months *shakes his head”…. =/

]]> By: danielle http://www.scottfreethinking.com/2007/10/the-6-month-relationship-mark-2/comment-page-1/#comment-294 danielle Tue, 26 Jan 2010 01:11:01 +0000 http://www.scottfreethinking.com/index.php/the-6-month-relationship-mark/#comment-294 Approaching 6months with my boyfriend and getting on great, very in love!superb advise thank you! Approaching 6months with my boyfriend and getting on great, very in love!superb advise thank you!

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