Love & Relationships

School Has Started – Anxious to Make Friends?

Now that the new semesters at campus nationwide have begun, many people are facing the fresh challenge of making new friends. For some, like new students to college campuses, they are ending up in a strange, new, unfamiliar place where forming a new social circle can be a significant challenge. More >

My Experience on Being Polyamorous and Single

Polyamory, or the practice of having multiple committed partners in a loving relationship with the full consent and knowledge of everyone involved, is something I used to take part in during a few of my previous relationships. Lately, I find myself single but still remembering what those days were like More >

A Crazy Truth About Physical Attraction

Many people miss an important truth when it comes to relationships that are started based upon looks and appearance. The odd thing about physical attractiveness and all of its foundations being based upon symmetry, health indicators, and in the case of a number of people: even surgical operations and make More >

Creating a Life Transformation From the Ground Up

Most people are unwilling to change. The reason for the static nature of people’s own personal resolutions is that once you perform a specific behavior for long enough, it becomes routine and when it’s routine: it’s predictable. Predictability creates comfort and comfort is pretty addicting. Of course, people that are More >

10 Things To Do While Being Single

For one of the first times in my life I have been enjoying being single. And I mean, really single. In fact, I’ve been spending so much time alone I have actually gotten quite comfortable with spending time alone. Eventually, once you get into the groove of getting things done More >

Deserving

A thought recently came to mind as to whether or not “deserving” something made a difference as to whether or not it was given or gotten. When it all comes down to it, the whole idea of “deserving” is actually sort of a strange one in modern society and I More >

Creating the “Moment” – First Kisses, First Moves

Many people I talk to have a hard enough time just getting relationships started and initiated. This very notion is perfectly understandable, but I think that it can be even more critical when to have the knowledge of when to make the first move or not. The first move is More >

The Importance of Self Esteem

Recently in a psychology class of mine we were talking about self esteem. Similar to many other things, self esteem is something that we experience in ourselves that affects all of our decisions. Self esteem is directly tied into our own personality, and it creates our inner thoughts of self More >

Building Your Interpersonal Network

As far as I can tell, I do not think there are a whole lot of people that would debate the idea that it is a beneficial thing to start leveraging the capabilities of a strong social network. I talked about this before recently in an article entitled Creating Value More >

Question: Who should pay on a first date?

To see a full list of questions here on Scott Free Thinking along with their answers, see the Scott Free Thinking Questions Introduction & Index.

Today’s Question: Who should pay on a first date?

Answer: In the modern age, the concept of chivalry and the whole 1950′s gentleman is quickly fading – some guys More >