Scott Free Thinking

In the first part of this series on seduction I am first going to introduce the entire concept of seduction as though you have never heard it before, because in the vast scheme of things it is quite possible you have not. The number one thing we can say about seduction is its overall definition. I think the definition for seduction needs to change, because a lot of the time it is paired with a strange negative connotation that often does not fit its experience, at least for me. Seduction, according to Dictionary.com, or to seduce, is: 1.)to lead astray, as from duty, rectitude, or the like; corrupt. 2.) to persuade or induce to have sexual intercourse. 3.) to lead or draw away, as from principles, faith, allegiance. 4.) to win over, attract, entice. The best definition, and sadly the one that is mentioned last is the final and most simple one: to win over, attract, entice. When you have “won over” someone, it is often a positive thing, as well as to attract them. To entice someone is usually a positive occurrence for both people involved, so this is something to remember. Seduction is NOT, however, anything like lying, cheating, or any form of dishonesty.

Why We Seduce and Use Seduction

What are the advantages to seduction? At what point would we seduce someone? Seduction is not just something exclusive to romantic relationships, though often that is what it has a connotation with. Seduction is also prone to use in a work situation, for example, when you might want to persuade your boss to give you a pay raise. Seduction principles are evident and visible in numerous different social circumstances. What I am going to teach you here, are the concepts you need to emotionally lead another human being to where you would like them to go so that they will be more likely to accept either a proposal, or a romantic inquiry. For the duration of this series, I will be referring to girls, for the most part, from the perspective of being a male - as this is where I have the most experience.

Seduction really comes back, in a way, to relationships in general. A lot of guys out there are spending their days lonely, thinking they are not good enough for the women they really want, and so on. I have news. Those guys are good enough, and not only are they good enough, they are going to learn, if they just persist to learn the concepts of seduction, how to get the their dream girl(or girls, plural. :D) Having gone through lots of material on the subject myself, and having gotten into and maintained several different relationships over time, I will show you the best teachers, resources, and even inform you as to some of the most dynamic and unique techniques you can use. Whether you’re wanting to be together with the girl you imagine could be your wife someday, or whether you’re wanting to be a pick up artist, player, dating fanatic who is with three different girls a week - the concepts are the same.

How to Seduce Anyone

The key to seduction is knowing that every kind of seduction revolves around a single idea. And that idea, is the ability to captivate the imagination and emotions of another. Every single action taken by a human being originates as a thought. Thoughts become things. This is a principle that the entire world operates under, and with seduction there is no difference. If you can captivate and then lead the imagination of another, you then have the power!

About This Series

Throughout the course of this series of entries, I am going to show you the techniques and tactics that really work. There are tons of different businesses out there devoted to snatching up poor men’s wallets for the sake of earning a quick buck when they’re selling ideas that do not necessarily work. On the other hand, there is also a lot of seduction guides out there, and most of the best ones are out there for free. The guy that I have learned most from, is Ross Jeffries of Speed Seduction. To some, the guy looks like a talentless worm who could be a giant liar. But I’ll tell you something else. He has been around for years, and has even gained the status of being something of a legend at seduction - beyond that of a modern Casanova. Many guys have been aided by his home study courses, his seminars and programs, and at the end of it most of his students proclaim him a genius. Drawing upon principles of Neuro Linguistic Programming, principles of hypnosis, and using his skills that he obtained from being a “failed comedy writer,” Ross Jeffries is quite simply the best seduction artist known today.

In addition to Ross Jeffries, the best teachers are many of the PUA’s(pick up artists) and people living from day to day like you and I. Their personal stories come in handy more often than I can probably emphasize properly here.

Before beginning, however, I would recommend you keep a few things in mind first about the nature of seduction itself. For one thing, this requires you to be an outgoing person. For you, this may be a problem or it may not. If you consider yourself shy, I would recommend reading my article, Overcoming Shyness, which describes some powerful methods you can use to get past your state of being shy. One requirement that does NOT exist, is the requirement of knowing how to dance, or being funny, but both can help. You also do not have to be that physically attractive for you to seduce gorgeous women or for you to gain the upper hand in any particular social situation; then again, like before, being physically attractive and beautiful can help. The main thing I want you to focus on is that whatever flaws you may have, they are not what is important during this entire process of your development. What is important is your drive to succeed, your determination, your endurance and persistence, and most of all - practice, practice, practice without end.

Are you ready? I hope so. Move onto Principles of Seduction - Part 2.