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Developing Your Signature Style

While I do not think it is important to always have a great body, hair, facial features, and so on for the terms of starting a romantic relationship, I have said that it helps. Thinking about it, though, I think possibly the most important characteristic out of any of the superficial factors would have to be developing your ’signature style.’ Now, that is certainly not a technical term, and I also certainly do not want anyone to feel impounded by the bounds of that phrase. Your signature style is quite simply your personality as a whole.

And thinking about that, your personality as a whole can definitely change. You can go through heavy periods of change during particular phases of your life. The first major personality change happens first at birth. From birth, rapid personality change continues to take place in just about any individual until about the age level of 9-10, where the personality can begin to stabilize to at least its first initial state. What is interesting about personality is the connotation of personality to the soul. People often relate these two together, and I think it is a fair connection - your soul is very much a resemblance of your personality, and vise versa. From age 9-10, there is another major personality shift that often happens with the onset of puberty.

The change in personality with the onset of puberty is interesting, because particularly in today’s modern culture there are a wide range of attributes that point to how culture is treating sex/sexuality, and what kids are learning at what particular age. While it is said that some of the personality change occurs during this initial puberty stage due to developing sexuality, another major cause of the personality shift is a new surge of hormonal activities. And by ages 14-16, it is very common for kids to suffer the “identity crisis.”

People generally tend to think that the process of growing up is somehow restricted to the terms of a number of changes until the final stabilization that happens in adulthood, often fairly shortly after the mid-20’s age level. But the truth of the matter is, and in terms of seduction this is very important, is that the process of change never stops. In fact, I’m not even sure it would be accurate to say that the process of it even slows down, but what I would say is that the growth/change process certainly changes in its nature to something quite differently than what you encounter during your early years of existence.

After a while of trying out different things in both starting and maintaining relationships, you will often find that your personality will shift to different phases with each and every girl you meet. The key thing about your signature style, or personality, however, is to never ever let it dip into something that is too dark or negative for anyone, including you, to enjoy. The results of successful relationships are from individuals who are often positively oriented, and the interesting thing is that people are often positively oriented towards each other because of each other. In fact, did you know that individuals who were not married during their lifetime often die sooner than those who were married? There is something that seems to be biologically effective to your very life, even at a cellular level, in relation to your relationships, and yes - your romantic relationships. This issue is not just exclusive to friendships.

So what can be said in conclusion is that over time, through trial and error, through several failures, you will eventually find ultimately successes. Just as the law of averages will work for you in any other concept of life, the law of averages will also work with seduction. As long as you persist in your attempts to be irresistible - you will eventually become so.